Recently, I had a candid conversation with Jackleen Givens who opened up about her life, her son, and the journey of writing her memoir, In His Lyrics. This emotional account captures both the struggles and triumphs faced by families dealing with autism, mental health, and addiction.
Jackleen’s story begins when her son was diagnosed with autism at the age of 15. This diagnosis marked a significant turning point for both her and him. For many families like hers, such news often comes laden with confusion, fear, and loneliness. As she shared, “I always felt that there was something different,” emphasising the weight of realising that those feelings were connected to something deeper.
Throughout the years, Jackleen diligently kept journals documenting her son’s experiences. These writings became a foundation for her memoir. “I found it very simple… everything is factual,” she noted about the writing process. What began as personal reflection transformed into an invaluable resource not only for herself but also for others navigating similar paths.
In their discussion, Jackleen expressed frustration at the barriers faced when seeking help for her son. Ontario’s health system presented numerous challenges, notably when it came to dual diagnoses involving addiction alongside mental health issues. “There wasn’t shelter for youth,” she explained regarding her son’s experiences while being unhoused during crucial years of his adolescence.
These systemic difficulties highlight significant gaps within support systems—gaps that many families confront daily without resolution or guidance.
In In His Lyrics, readers are invited into not just Jackleen’s perspective but also that of her son. Collaboratively writing this piece allowed them to share narratives that are often shrouded in shame and silence within families dealing with mental health issues.
The memoir offers insights into their individual journeys—his feelings of isolation amidst friends and his creative expression through poetry and lyrics resonate throughout its chapters.
Writing this memoir has not only been cathartic but has provided Jackleen with new perspectives applicable to her professional work in developmental services—a testament to how sharing one’s story can influence others positively in various spaces.
Jackleen Givens’ In His Lyrics is more than just a memoir—it represents a call for empathy and understanding towards everyone navigating life’s harsh realities related to mental health challenges. It encourages conversations often left unspoken yet so necessary among families seeking connection and support.
If you’re looking to purchase this memoir you can do so here.
